Using color in your homespace is the number one way to express yourself. Even purposefully choosing not to use color such as using tones of white in a monochromatic scheme is a choice intended to create a subtle, peaceful energy in your home. What colors you choose in your décor scheme should be carefully thought out. After all, your homespace is the most personal outward expression to others of how you live your life. Using color (or the lack thereof) should bring joy to you. Even this month’s edition of Veranda magazine’s main story is titled, The Joy Of Color and the words are in hot pink!
As I wrote a few months back in a blog post titled, The Power Of Color, it is important to let the colors you use in your homespace accurately express who and what you are. No two homes should remotely look the same. Homes should be as unique as those that dwell within them. My own daughter-in-law, Kathleen Brami Aliff is the epitome of understanding this. Her home doesn’t keep up with the trends. Her home reflects her personality through and through. Kathleen loves Red. Kathleen sees Red as a means of expressing who she is. And so, Kathleen’s love of red flows throughout her entire home whether it is shown in full bloom as a backdrop (as in wall color) or in splashes of it in fabrics and accessories artfully placed in every room.
RED: The warmest of colors, Red symbolizes passion, energy and excitement. It is often the color chosen by extreme extroverts for self-expression.
From little girl to grown woman
I have been planning to write about Kathleen’s love of Red ever since my early blog posts on color. In fact, after The Power Of Color, I wrote a post on the color Purple and “The Purple Lady” (aka Lisa Hensley) titled, She Loves The Color Purple. Like Lisa, Kathleen knows what makes her feel good. And, like Lisa, I interviewed Kathleen for this article to get a glimpse into her psyche about her love of red.
What I found out was really interesting. Here I thought I pretty much knew what made my daughter-in-law tick. Yeah sure, the color Red matches her but, I never knew how or why she “morphed” into this color when in actuality most of her life her color of choice was Pink.
“All the way through high school I was in love with Pink. I even used to wear Pink. I wore Pink all the time. After I met Ben he asked me to quit wearing it so much and so for me, Red seemed a classy, grown-up version of Pink. Now Red is my statement color. It is my signature color. I love shoes and shoes in my view look better in red.”
That’s what Kathleen told me. Wow, I thought, who knew? Red was Kathleen’s metamorphosis of Pink – the grown-up version of her. Very interesting.
So, let me give you the psychological slant on all this. The color Red speaks to creativity. It is sexy, powerful and full of energy. Make no bones about it – Red catches your eye. Period.
Yep, the color Red matches my daughter-in-law to a tee ~ confident, outgoing, and full of attitude. Feisty she is and so her love of red absolutely, positively outwardly fits her personality.
Quite naturally then when Kathleen and Ben got married her love of Red influenced their homespace.
“Every room has something red in it. Whether it is the wall color, a pot or a plant. Even for Christmas this year one of my gifts to Ben was something red for his “man cave”. So now even that room will have touches of my love of red in it.”
For someone visiting their home, no doubt Red speaks to you in each room even if in subtle ways. What I love as a decorator is how well she has pulled it off. Her homespace is comfy cozy and yet, very unique.
That’s what we all should strive for in our own homes. Self-expression makes or breaks the true beauty of your space. If your space does not match who and what you are, the energy of the space will be off. It’s just that simple.
Everyone should have a decorating mantra that goes like this:
Express yourself. Just do it. Express yourself.
Kathleen has and loves to show it!
To loving color…